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Can I have a no-fault divorce?

Yes – Divorce law in England and Wales was radically transformed in April 2022 bringing in a new system where no blame is assigned to either party, hence the name “no-fault divorce”.

You can get divorced in England and Wales if all of the following are true:

You’ve been married or in a civil partnership for more than one year
Your relationship has permanently broken down
Your marriage or civil partnership is recognised legally in the UK (including same-sex marriage)
England or Wales is the permanent home for at least one of you.

What grounds are needed for a no-fault divorce?

The new no-fault divorce removes the need to provide evidence of conduct or separation, this is replaced with a simple requirement to give a statement of irretrievable breakdown of the marriage or civil partnership.

My ex-partner cheated on me can I divorce them for their adultery?

No, the no-fault divorce system no longer allows adultery to be used as the reason for the divorce. Similarly you can no longer use your ex-partner’s bad behaviour as the reason for the divorce. Extreme behaviour may however be relevant if there are separate court proceedings in relation to children or finances.

How long will a joint application for divorce take?

A joint application will take a minimum of 7 months. This includes a compulsory 20 week “reflection period” between the start of the proceedings and when you can apply for the conditional order. There is another 6 week waiting period between the conditional order and when you can apply for the final order.

I have set out the detailed proceed for applying for a divorce in a separate blog.

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Understanding the Divorce Process – The 3 elements to a divorce

There are three elements to the divorce process:

1. Dissolution of the marriage

This is the legal process to formally end the marriage. It includes filing a divorce application, obtaining a Conditional Order and then a Final Order. (Formerly known as Decree Nisi and Decree Absolute).

2. Childcare arrangements

If you have children then you will need to make arrangements on how you will co-parent them. Ideally you will make these arrangements informally between yourselves without the involvement of solicitors. If you are finding it difficult to discuss the arrangements with your ex-partner the use of a professional mediator may assist you in moving things forward. If an agreement can be reached should record this in a parenting plan so it is clear what has been agreed. This should reduce the scope for disagreements later. If arrangements for your children cannot be agreed you should seek legal advice about applying to the court for a child arrangement order.

3. Financial arrangements

This tends to be the most difficult part of the divorce process and will require some input from a legal professional. If possible, you and your partner should try and reach an agreement as to how you will divide your assets, debts and pensions and where you will both live. If you can’t reach an agreement yourselves you should instruct an independent mediator to help you reach an agreement. In order to be legally binding this agreement needs to be formally recorded in a court order called a “Consent Order”, you will need a solicitor to prepare this document and you should both have independent legal advice about the order.

Who can register a baby’s birth?

Following the birth of a baby, there is a lot of admin involved!

Whilst your main focus is caring for this new little person, you are legally required to register your baby’s birth within 42 days of the birth at the local registry office. The requirements for registering a birth and how the parents acquire parental responsibility differs depending on the status of their relationship and their sex, so I have gone into this in some detail below.

Parental responsibility is really important. Whilst the birth mother automatically has parental responsibility from the birth, it is the second parent who must ensure that they are properly registered.If you want to be recognised as your child’s parent it is crucial you ensure that you acquire parental responsibility and if you have any doubts get legal advice so that this is done properly.

Same-sex female couples

Female couples can include both their names on a child’s birth certificate when registering the birth and can therefore both have parental responsibility.

Same-sex females who are married or in a civil partnership

Either parent can register the birth on their own if both of the following are true:

the mother has a child by donor insemination or fertility treatment; and
she was married or in a civil partnership at the time of the treatment.

They will both have parental responsibility in this scenario.

Same-sex females who are unmarried or non-civil partner parents

When a mother is not married or in a civil partnership, her partner can be seen as the child’s second parent if both women:

are treated together in the UK by a licensed clinic; and
have made a “parenthood agreement”

However, for both parents’ details to be recorded on the birth certificate they must do one of the following:

register the birth jointly; or
complete a “statutory declaration of acknowledgement of parentage form” and one parent takes the signed form when she registers the birth; or
get a court order giving the second female parent parental responsibility and one parent shows that order when she registers the birth.

There is a link to the “statutory declaration of acknowledgement of parentage form” below.

Same-sex male couples

Male couples must get a parental order from the court before they can be registered as parents.

There is a link to a “parental order” form below.

Opposite-sex couples

Opposite-sex parents who are married or in a civil partnership

Either parent can register the birth if they were married to each other in a civil partnership together at the time of the birth. Opposite-sex couples and those who are married or in a civil partnership automatically have parental responsibility when the child is born, they don’t need to be on the birth certificate to obtain this.

Opposite-sex parents who are not married or in a civil partnership

The details of both parents can be included on the birth certificate if:

they sign the birth register together (they will both need to be present); or
one parent completes a statutory declaration of parentage form and the other takes the signed form to register the birth; or
one parent goes to register the birth with a court order giving the father parental responsibility.

It is important that both parents attend the registration, if the mother attends alone the father’s details cannot be registered. It may however be possible to add them on later by registering the birth.

Helpful links:

Statutory declaration of acknowledgement of parentage form:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/statutory-declaration-of-acknowledgement-of-parentage-form

Application to re-register a birth and add the father’s details:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/application-to-re-register-a-childs-birth-and-add-the-natural-fathers-details

Details on how to get a parental order:

https://www.gov.uk/legal-rights-when-using-surrogates-and-donors/become-the-childs-legal-parent

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Does it matter if a father is named on a child’s birth certificate?

YES!

I’m often asked if it really matters if a child’s father or other parent is named on their birth certificate. In the chaos of bringing home and caring for a new baby, a trip to the registry office can fall down the list of priorities, but it is important to make sure the birth certificate is fully completed properly.

Being named on a birth certificate or not can have a big impact on a parents “parental responsibility” which I have discussed in a previous post. In brief, parental responsibility is really important, it is the legal rights and responsibilities of a parent.

You need to register your baby’s birth within 42 days of the birth at the local registry office. Most hospitals are pretty good at giving you instructions for your local process at discharge, if in doubt check your Local Authority’s website.

I am going to be addressing the position for opposite-sex couples in this blog. It is slightly different for same-sex couples, which is dealt with in the “Who can register a baby’s birth?” blog.

If the mother and father are married or in a civil partnership at the time of the child’s birth the father automatically acquires parental responsibility when the child is born.

Difficulties arise when the parents are not married nor in a civil partnership. In that scenario, the father does not automatically acquire parental responsibility, if he is not named on the birth certificate he isn’t legally recognised as the father. This has the potential do cause real difficulties for him if he wants to play a role in his child’s life.

Can the father be added to the birth certificate later?

Yes.

How this is done will depend on whether the mother agrees to his name being added and the birth re-registered. This is only relevant for unmarried, non-civil partners.

If the mother is in agreement, the birth certificate can be re-registered with the General Register Office (GRO). The mother and father will need to provide a statutory declaration to the GRO from the mother confirming that the father is the child’s father.

You can get the statutory declaration form here:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/statutory-declaration-of-acknowledgement-of-parentage-form

If the mother is not in agreement to the father being added, the father will need to make an application to the court seeking a declaration of parentage. This may involve a DNA test being undertaken to establish paternity if this is not accepted. Once established, the court will notify the GRO and the birth certificate will be re-registered including the father’s details. Father will not acquire parental responsibility in this case but will need to take a further step.

Parental responsibility agreement

A parental responsibility agreement (PRA) is made between the child’s father and mother and will provide the father with parental responsibility when the parents are unmarried or not in a civil partnership. A PRA is only needed where the father isn’t named on the birth certificate or his name was added via re-registration following a declaration of parentage from the court. A PRA can only be made if both parents consent to it. Once made it should be submitted to the court and then sent to the GRO.

You can get the parental responsibility agreement form here:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/form-cpra1-parental-responsibility-agreement

Parental responsibility order

A parental responsibility order is made by the court and will provide the father with parental responsibility. It is only necessary where the father is not named on the birth certificate and the mother is unwilling to either re-register the birth certificate with the GRO or lodge a parental responsibility agreement with the court. If a declaration of parentage has been made by a court then a parental responsibility order will also be required to give the father parental responsibility.

Details on how to apply for a parental responsibility order can be found here:

https://www.gov.uk/parental-rights-responsibilities/apply-for-parental-responsibility

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When should I speak to a solicitor about my divorce.

Many people put off speaking to a solicitor because they are worried about the potential cost. Conversely, by speaking to a solicitor at the outset you are more likely to save costs in the long run as well as a lot of stress. The earlier you obtain legal advice about your separation the better. Practical advice about the divorce process and the likely outcomes for you will help you navigate the process with clarity and understanding. In my experience, couples who have both received early legal advice are more likely to reach a settlement and avoid the delay and costs excessive litigation can bring.

It is never too early to speak to a solicitor if you think your relationship is coming to an end. Burying your head in the sand will achieve nothing, facing up to the situation from an informed position will empower you to move forward and make the overall process less stressful. I often speak to people before they have made a definite decision about their relationship, but who want to explore their options and what their reality may look like of they proceed with a divorce.

Your partner or ex-partner need not know you have obtained legal advice if you decide not to proceed with the situation. The interactions you have with a lawyer will be confidential and your lawyer will be used to dealing with clients very discretely.

Just because you speak to a solicitor does not mean your case will end up in court. A good solicitor will seek to achieve the best outcome for you without litigation if possible. They will be able to support you through the mediation process and work with you to achieve an agreed outcome with your ex-partner.

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What are my common law marriage rights?

None!

This is one of the biggest family law myths in England and Wales, common law marriage does not exist in this jurisdiction.

Unless you are married or in a civil partnership, legally, with a certificate to prove it, you will not benefit from the statutory protection divorce law offers divorcing couples.

Cohabiting couple families are the fastest growing family type in the UK, however as a family lawyer, I have real concerns about the lack of statutory protection available for these families when relationships end. Divorce law gives the family court the power to redistribute assets in accordance with fairness and each party’s financial need, however, cohabitant’s have none of this protection.

Legal Remedies for Cohabiting Couples

The law for unmarried couples is messy. There are some remedies available, however, they were not drafted with families in mind and are far from ideal.

Family Home

If you are purchasing a property with your partner you should do so following advice from a solicitor which reflects each of your legal interest in the property. Cohabitation agreements and declarations of trust in relation to properties and assets are something you should consider.

If you do not however own the family home jointly with your partner, it instead being legally owned by your partner, you may be able to to make an application under the Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996, the burden will be on your to establish that there was a “common intention” that you should have a “beneficial interest” in the property and that you relied upon that common intention to your prejudice. This area of law is complex and it can be expensive to pursue a claim.

Child Maintenance

For couples with children the person caring for the children can make an application to the Child Maintenance Service for child maintenance. This maintenance is however only for the children, most people are surprised at the low level of maintenance required and it is not intended to provide for the carer. It is possible in some cases to seek further financial support for children under Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989 depending on the wealth of your partner and if you think this may apply to your matter you should seek legal advice as you may be entitled to remain in the family home and receive periodical payments including a carer’s allowance.

Further disputes about money and assets are most likely to be considered a contractual dispute and would be dealt with under civil rather than matrimonial law.

What Should Cohabiting Couples Do?

Talk about your finances and what you will do if your relationship ends. If you do not intend to get married or enter into a civil partnership consider entering into a cohabitation agreement. I know it is not romantic, however many of the day to day practicalities of living with someone aren’t and your relationship may benefit from some advance planning on how you intend to handle the day to day responsibilities of living together. You can set out your intentions, who will pay for what, who will buy what and what the plan is if you were to have a baby. You can also set out a plan to set out how you would divide up your finances should your relationship end. A little legal advice and planning at an early stage could save a lot of stress, anxiety, time and legal costs if your relationship ends.

Pensions are also a crucial consideration. Unlike married couples who usually automatically benefit under their spouses bill, partners will need to be nominated in order to be eligible for any death in service benefits.

Lastly, it is really important that you have an up to date will. If you aren’t married and your partner doesn’t have a will you have no rights to their estate. There may be some protection offered under the Inheritance Act (Provision for Family and Dependents) Act 1975, but that will be dependent on your circumstances and will require an application to the court. It will be much more straightforward if there is a valid will in place making appropriate provision.

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What is Parental Responsiblity?

Parental responsibility is really important. It is the legal rights and responsibilities a parent has for a child and what gives legal recognition to you being a parent.

If you have parental responsibility you will be responsible for:

Providing a home for your child;
Protecting and maintaining your child (although parents without parental responsiblity also have a duty to financially support thier child)
Choosing and providing for your child’s education;
Making decision in relation to your child’s medical treatment;
Naming and agreeing to any change of name;
Looking after your child’s property.

Exercising parental responsibility, that is making decisions about your child should be done in agreement with all others with parental responsibility. This is usually straightforward if you are in a relationship with the other parent, however for separated parents it can be challenging.

Parental responsibility and separated parents

Having parental responsibility for a child you do not live with, does not automatically mean you have a right to spend time with them. However, the parent with who the child lives must consult others with parental responsibility when making major decisions about your child.

You do not need to be consulted about each day to day decision, however when it comes to important matters such as schooling or moving abroad, both parents should reach an agreement. It is sensible to record this in writing.

If an agreement can’t be reached you can apply to the court for a specific issue order or a prohibited steps order.

You can find out more about this and get the relevant court forms here:

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/form-c100-application-under-the-children-act-1989-for-a-child-arrangements-prohibited-steps-specific-issue-section-8-order-or-to-vary-or-discharge

How to make a joint application for divorce

Step 1: Apply online

Whilst you may wish to instruct a professional, you do not need a solicitor to prepare the divorce petition, you can do this yourself. Whilst I do often prepare divorce applications, particularly in cases I am advising on the children and finances, the divorce application itself is relatively straightforward and most people will find they are able to complete it themselves.

You can access the divorce application portal here:

https://www.gov.uk/divorce/file-for-divorce

Please ensure you use the gov.uk website and not any other. There are many “divorce provider” websites who will charge you a fee for submitting the application on your behalf.

The court fee for applying for a divorce is currently £593. If a website asks you for further funds you are likely in the wrong place.

You can make a paper application, however I strongly recommend you apply online, it is quicker and you are less likely to make a mistake on that form.

In terms of making the application, one party will take the lead as Applicant 1, they will start the application. Applicant 2 will then fill in their information and finally Applicant 1 will then submit the application to the court.

Applicant 1 will be responsible for paying the court fee, the system does not make it possible for it to be split between the parties, therefore if you want to share the costs you will need to do this separately.

Step 2: The court starts the divorce process

After your application has been submitted, it takes 2 weeks before the process officially begins, this will trigger the 20 week reflection period.

The reflection period is in place firstly to allow the couple to change their minds about the divorce and secondly to make arrangements for their children and finances.

Step 3: You jointly apply for the conditional order

After the 20 week reflection period, you can jointly apply for the conditional order. (Previously known as the Decree Nisi).

Step 4: The court reviews your application for a conditional order

When your application for the conditional order is received by the court, a legal advisor will review your application. If they approve your divorce, they will issue you with a Certificate of Entitlement to confirm the date of your conditional order. This step takes one to two weeks.

Step 5: The court grants the conditional order

The date of the conditional order will be around 4 to 5 weeks from the certificate of entitlement.

Once the court grants the conditional order, the second compulsory waiting period begins, this time for 6 weeks. This stage is significant as it is only when the conditional order has been granted that you are permitted to submit any financial orders such as a consent order or clean break order in relation to any financial agreements you have made.

Step 6: You jointly apply for the final order

After a minimum of 6 weeks have passed you can apply jointly for the final order (previously known as the Decree Absolute) to finalise your divorce.

Step 7: The court grants the final order

The court will issue the final order a few days after your application. A copy will be sent to both of you and this final order means you are officially divorced. You will need to keep this order safe, as you will need it in the future as proof of your divorce.

Can we make a joint application for divorce?

Yes, recent changes to the law mean that for the first time it is possible for a couple to apply jointly for a divorce. Whilst it is still possible to apply individually, a joint application is likely to be the best option in most situations.

Making a joint decision to apply for a divorce can be seen as a positive step forward when a relationship has broken down. Rather than one person taking the lead and the other perhaps feeling ambushed or shocked, a joint application ensures that both parties are well aware of the divorce from the outset and will feel fully involved and are more likely to engage with the process.

If you can start the divorce process in a (relatively) amicable manner, when you are both emotionally ready to proceed, it is much more likely that you will then be able to deal with resolving your finances and the arrangements for your children in a smoother manner.

When applying jointly for a divorce application, one person will take the lead – Applicant 1, the other will be Applicant 2. If at some point during the process your relationship deteriorates significantly or one person is not engaging with the process, it is possible to switch to an individual divorce application so that progress can be made.

I’ve set out in more detail the process for applying jointly in another blog.

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How do I make an individual application for a divorce.

Step 1: Apply online

Whilst instructing a solicitor is not required when submitting a divorce application, if you have been unable to agree to make a joint application with your ex-partner it is likely your relationship is quite acrimonious and some professional input will likely be of real benefit. You may not need to instruct a solicitor to apply for the divorce but an initial consultation is likely to be of real benefit early on if your separation is particularly difficult.

The divorce process includes not only obtaining the final divorce order, but you may also have to make arrangements for your finances and children. It is the financial and child arrangements which usually prove to be the more difficult areas to resolve and which are at risk of escalating to contested court proceedings with escalating costs and significant delay.

The divorce application is usually the first step on the road to separation and can set the tone for the whole case going forward. Seeking early advice from an experienced solicitor can assist with getting the case on the right track, minimising the potential for conflict and possible protracted proceedings in relation to your children and finances going forward.

You can access the divorce application portal here:

https://www.gov.uk/divorce/file-for-divorce

Please ensure you use the gov.uk website and not any other. There are many “divorce provider” websites who will charge you a fee for submitting the application on your behalf.

The court fee for applying for a divorce is currently £593. If a website asks you for further funds you are likely in the wrong place.

You can make a paper application, however I strongly recommend you apply online, it is quicker and you are less likely to make a mistake on that form.

In terms of making the application, one party will make the application they will be known as the “Applicant”, the other party will be known as the “Respondent”.

The Applicant will be responsible for paying the court fee.

Step 2: The court starts the divorce process

After your application has been submitted, it takes 2 weeks before the process officially begins, this will trigger the 20 week reflection period.

The reflection period is in place firstly to allow the couple to change their minds about the divorce and secondly to make arrangements for their children and finances.

The court will send your partner a copy of the divorce petition and the “Acknowledgement of Service” (AOS), you parter has 14 days to complete the AOS and return it to the court.

Step 3: You apply for the conditional order

After the 20 week reflection period, (assuming that the Respondent has promptly returned the AOS) you can apply for the conditional order. (Previously known as the Decree Nisi).

Step 4: The court reviews your application for a conditional order

Step 5: The court grants the conditional order

The date of the conditional order will be around 4 to 5 weeks from the certificate of entitlement.

Step 6: You apply for the final order

After a minimum of 6 weeks have passed you can apply for the final order (previously known as the Decree Absolute) to finalise your divorce.

Step 7: The court grants the final order